Now, I will once again demonstrate that I watch far too much reality TV. I topped off my birthday yesterday by watching the final episode of A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila.
I was only slightly surprised on the previous episode when Tila let Amanda go. Tila and Amanda would have made a beautiful pair of lipstick lesbians together. They had fun together, but Amanda was too invested in putting down Dani to get ahead, which always backfires in the end. Sabotaging others can get you to the end game in dating shows, but you won't win because you're ultimately not as trustworthy. If you're willing to tattletale on your cohort in the show, you may be willing tattletale on the celebrity in the future, which is career suicide. This is generally true in business and life as well. If you want to get ahead in business and friendship in the long run, you have to take the high road and do it with a smile.
The final episode came down to a choice between a man and a woman, not surprising when the whole show was premised on Tila working out her bisexuality and whether she wanted to be with a man or woman in the long run. Tila is artificially limiting her choices, but other alternative lifestyle choices are still too racy for television, even MTV, and Tila's career, and it couldn't be marketed as a game show if there wasn't one winner, despite ongoing professions of her love for both final candidates. Dani is a butch lesbian, a stable, strong woman with a career as a firefighter. Bobby is a cute, quirky, innocent young man. Although Dani seemed to be a better personal fit, even having been voted the most compatible by her competitors in an earlier episode, I was expecting Tila to pick Bobby in the end. Throughout the show Tila demonstrated her ambivalence to her bisexuality. It was a big deal for her to reveal her affairs with women on the show and it was highlighted that she hasn't been attracted to butch women in the past. If Tila chose Dani, she would be outing herself a lesbian and would have to integrate into Dani's strong biological and firefighting families, which will be nearly impossible given her career choice. Despite his person quirkiness, Bobby was the safe choice for Tila's career and personal life. He is a man and he is willing to fit himself into her life. Tila literally looks good with Bobby and figuratively is redeeming herself with the average American by choosing a heterosexual lifestyle after "experimenting". Although Dani may have been a better choice as a personal fit, there was no real choice in the end from a game show perspective and Tila did not appear ready to define herself as a lesbian. I'm sorry for Tila's choice because Tila does seem to be invested in developing a longterm relationship, but I doubt even more than the average dating show that this relationship will work out.
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